Self acceptance 🧡
- The fearful rider
- Apr 12, 2020
- 2 min read
💛𝕊𝕖𝕝𝕗 𝕒𝕔𝕔𝕖𝕡𝕥𝕒𝕟𝕔𝕖💛
A lot of our confidence/fear thoughts come from worrying about what others think or believe about us, this can literally make or break a person. We’ve all been there and your lying if you say you haven’t! (Or if you haven’t been there your a superhuman and please give some of your super powers to me! 🦸🏼♀️)
So how do we become a better version of ourselves? To benefit our mental health and our horses way of going?
It takes a lot of will power and self love, which is two of the biggest things humans lack. We always second question ourselves, we always think about ourselves in a negative way, we always focus on the negatives instead of the positives! But what good is that doing?
We’re all human, we all have to start somewhere and we all make mistakes. It’s literally trial and error. So let’s make the journey of getting where we want to be with our horse a fun one! Why should it be daunting? Why should it be scary? And why should it be not fun!?
It shouldn’t! It should be exciting, thrilling, empowering and most definitely fun.
First we have to start with ourselves, you’ve probably heard this before but our horses are a reflection of us. So how do we expect our horses to improve and develop if we’re staying the same? It won’t happen.
Self acceptance, a hard one. One I haven’t concurred yet! But I’m hopeful I will! So we need to accept the person we are, the flaws we have and the advantages we have. We need to learn how to be at one with ourselves and how to not worry about other people’s opinions. This will take a massive weight of your shoulders and your horses!
We need to have self love, love the fact that we are who we are, love the fact that you’ve improved from where you first started, love the fact that you have a passion for life and horses, and love the fact that you are willing to better yourself.
I’m empowered and completely in love with all the equestrians new to the game, and ones who have been at it for years that follow and support the fearful rider. Your all superhero’s to me, to have the dedication, the desire, the passion and the discipline to look after the most majestic and beautiful animal on this earth! For just that in itself, you should be proud of yourself. You should most definitely love yourself. And accept yourself for who you are...
Because your perfect! 🧡
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